2025 isn’t just another year—we won’t let it be, right?? It’s your year to step into your most confident, unstoppable self.
I had a little bit of an epiphany this week that I want to share. All of this that we’re working on, maybe needs to be framed differently. We’ve been so heavily focused on what you want to DO, when maybe we should be focusing more on who we want to BE and how we want to LIVE.
We’ve already talked about the Glow Up and what it is, what it isn’t, and what it takes in The Glow Up Isn’t Pretty.
It takes a lot of inner work and a lot of consistency, and a lot of it is going to suck. But what you learn in the process, along with the outcome, makes it all so worth it.
One of the biggest things to remember that this is a lifestyle change; a marathon not a sprint. You’ll be so much more successful if you spend your effort creating sustainable habits to carry you through where you want to go and beyond. And that’s exactly what we’re going to dive into!
We’ll look at some actionable tips and tools for your journey pulled from my experiences and things I’ve learned along the way. Stick through til the end because I’m sharing all my faves tools that have helped me, and for sure can help you too!
Setting The Stage for Change
Why now? Seriously…. why now as opposed to 6 months from now?
First of all, the faster you start the sooner you’ll get there. Personally, I’m pretty tired of setting the same resolutions over and over again every year. I want to look back a year from now and say “man look what I did and look who I BECAME in the process!!”
The New Year always has a vibe of a clean slate; things are being rethought, rebranded, relaunched, everyone is taking advantage of the “new year new me” vibe, so why not run with it?
There have actually been studies done talking about people feeling more motivation at the beginning of a month or a year — that motivation tends to ebb and flow, and that’s where the tools come in.
What does your best self look like in 2025? Get specific.
Write down one area where you want to grow (self care, mindset, finances, relationships, etc.)
Now visualize yourself thriving in that area. What does that look like? Feel like? What are you doing? How are things different than they are now ?
When I did this last year, I envisioned myself showing up consistently for my business. All of a sudden I was making content every day, talking with people, doing all the things I needed to be doing and have been able to grow into my leadership in a major way!!
This year I’ll be adding a focus on who I want to be.
Not just the things I’ve done, but the person I’m becoming. I’m aiming for determined, disciplined, balanced, and peaceful.
Self Care as a Foundation for Confidence
Just in case you needed a reminder — self care isn’t fucking selfish. It’s necessary. Full stop.
This is a big part of who you are.
Are you the person who takes intentional time for yourself every day?? Do you prioritize you and your self care?? Do you show up for yourself every day?
The impact on your mindset and energy that simple acts of self care can have are HUGE.
Some basic things you can do if you’re not sure where to start:
- Morning Routine: Develop a simple but effective morning routine. Take time to plan your day, do a skincare routine, have some coffee or tea and sit in quiet reflection, journal or practice affirmations.
Note: find a small indulgence to just boost your confidence that extra mile. Add a signature fragrance or throw on a bold lip or piece of jewelry or something comfortable & chic — whatever makes you feel amazing.
- Evening Routine: I’m always going to suggest a good skincare routine! In the evenings, throw in a Gua Sha routine, spend some time with your partner or loved ones, do some light reading or journaling, or start a meditation practice. Choose things to help you wind down and feel relaxed before you go to bed.
Prioritizing self care has helped me show up better for myself, my business, and my partner. It’s a huge part of me becoming who I want to be by finding a moment of peace in all the chaos and leaning into balance.
If you’re ready to start prioritizing your self care, I’ve put together a little Spa Day bundle with my favorite Limelife products! Find your new skincare routine here.
Mindset Shifts to Unlock Confidence
First and foremost, we have to tackle our limiting beliefs.
Take out a piece of paper or a blank page in your journal and write down all your limiting beliefs. All the “I can’ts” “I’m nots” etc.
Now rewrite them.
What do you actually believe ?? What beliefs are holding you back? Name them and let them go.
Shift your perspective from “I can’t” to “I’m figuring it out,” and use small wins to celebrate and build momentum.
Goal-Setting Habits for Sustainable Success
This is pretty basic, and we’ve talked about goal setting a lot, so I won’t spend too much time here. These are some really simple guidelines to follow when you sit down to set your goals.
Remember, it’s not just about what you’re going to do, but who you want to become.
- Set aligned goals that excite you—not just what you think you should do.
- Break goals into micro-steps for daily wins.
- Track progress with tools like planners or habit trackers.
Focusing on the daily habits makes the overall goal seem a lot more attainable. Instead of staring at this big thing to accomplish, you’re looking at the small actionable steps you’re taking every day.
Take something like paying off debt — breaking down that giant number into monthly payments and daily actions has made it much easier for me to tackle without feeling like everything is about that big number.
Staying Consistent with Your Glow-Up Journey
Ok, these steps are MASSIVELY important. Without consistency, nothing really gets done. So FOCUS on consistency over intensity. You can hammer on something for hours or days and get so much accomplished, BUT it’s the fastest way to burnout. Stick to these to keep yourself on track.
- Embrace progress over perfection.
- Build a support system — accountability partners, online communities, etc. Build up those connections to keep you going when things get hard.
- Stay motivated by reconnecting to your “why.”
If you need more guidance on finding your “why,” read more here.
Consistency is probably the number one thing that has kept me going. When things get really hard, I’ve already developed routines and structures to make things easy to stay on track. I’ve had to be really transparent with my partner and the people around me. Telling them what my intentions are sets us all up for success; we know what to expect, what to work on, where our focus should be.
Also being really public about what I’m trying to do has helped me stay accountable as well, especially when it comes to staying clean!!
Your 2025 Glow-Up Blueprint in Action
Now we tie it all together. Take the highlights:
- Self Care
- Mindset/perspective shifts
- Goal setting in alignment
- CONSISTENCY.
Boom. Refer back to these as you’re creating your plans, and most importantly …. remember, this isn’t about overnight transformation. This is building a life you’re more than proud of, one step at a time.
What’s one habit you’re committing to this week?? Drop it in the comments or DM me! Id love to help you make it a reality!!!