Category: Healing

  • Where I’m At: Leaning into Self Discovery

    Where I’m At: Leaning into Self Discovery

    This is going to be vulnerable. If you’re here for it, thank you. If you’re not, that’s ok too. I’m honestly not even sure where to start with this…I’ve been debating sharing any of this at all. I am because it’s my truth. And I truly believe it’s important we…

  • Being Gentle With Yourself (While Still Getting Shit Done)

    Being Gentle With Yourself (While Still Getting Shit Done)

    People often think being soft means being lazy or unproductive. That’s a lie. It’s about balance. It’s about finding the strength and inspiration in stillness and letting those moments of rest fuel you. I won’t lie — getting myself to do “less” has been really fucking hard. It’s a practice.…

  • The Soft Month Challenge: Rest, Resistance, and Radical Self-Care

    The Soft Month Challenge: Rest, Resistance, and Radical Self-Care

    I’ve been here before. Feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, burnt out. Churning things out like a damn robot because that’s what I’m “supposed” to do, right? Add to that a real rough medication change, constant fibromyalgia flare up’s, and the ins and outs of daily life and you have a foolproof recipe…

  • Breaking Free from the Routine: Making Room for Creativity Again

    Breaking Free from the Routine: Making Room for Creativity Again

    After living a life of chaos, structure and routine were not so easy to develop. I had absolutely no discipline in my life and I found the repetition of routine incredibly uncomfortable… at first. But it was necessary to pick up the pieces left by trauma and addiction. I had…

  • You Can’t Fix an Internal Problem With an External Solution—But You Can Use Both to Your Advantage

    You Can’t Fix an Internal Problem With an External Solution—But You Can Use Both to Your Advantage

    Let’s Be Real… No amount of makeup, skincare, or external glow-up is going to fix what’s broken inside. You can have the best foundation, the perfect skincare routine, and lashes that make people do a double take—but if your mindset is trash, you’re still going to feel like shit. I…

  • No One is Coming to Save Us—So We Save Ourselves (And Each Other)

    No One is Coming to Save Us—So We Save Ourselves (And Each Other)

    The Harsh Truth: No One is Coming to Save You I used to wait. For a hero, a lifeline, a moment where everything would magically change. Surprise: It never came. Waiting around for the world to be kinder, safer, or easier is a losing game. Sure fire way to lose…

  • Overcoming the Upper Limit Problem: My Takeaways From ”The Big Leap”

    Overcoming the Upper Limit Problem: My Takeaways From ”The Big Leap”

    Have you ever felt like things are going too good?? Next thing you know, something bad is happening — you’re getting sick, have an accident, starting arguments or just otherwise getting completely derailed?? Apparently that’s a thing. It’s not just you. I felt it too until I read this book,…

  • I’m Strong as Fuck, But I’m Learning to Be Soft Too”

    I’m Strong as Fuck, But I’m Learning to Be Soft Too”

    Swapping Out My Armor for Cashmere I’m going to be honest, I thought I had to stay armored up to survive, but I’m learning that softness doesn’t mean I’m weak—it means I’m finally free. At one point, the armor was necessary. I don’t just mean metaphorically either, literal, physical armor…